Women both yesterday, and today wait from relations of marriage, its men to be afraid. Last centuries them forced, enticed rich given, count titles. Now they to itself owners. What to do with modern men? To look round on the parties and to choose by a principle of the least resistibility? Or to live by a principle +here and now;, not thinking about where will result relations and what waits for us behind turn? The next birthday. … men and women have in this occasion various emotions. However, as well as in any other occasion. Men with the big scope celebrate 25th, 28th, 30th birthday and on all corners shout about the age. Women in a silent family circle, with those who and without reminders knows their age. Lovely smile to acquaintances and colleagues – +Well, well birthday, well to whom does not happen;. So any birthday after 20 is marked by unmarried women. Because the next birthday reminds once again of this status. When to you 20 you think, that all ahead and you see as much all novel and interesting, but every year, you understand, that something is time to do, acquire any back, to get a family, to give birth to children. It is possible to enjoy a society of men which never marry. They are awfully attractive, clever, beautiful and well-founded. They live to the full extent, with them it is cheerful and interesting, they understand your jokes, and fine amuse. What for to meet the representative of "a strong half of mankind; which never marries? Whether and so never? Perhaps we simply incorrectly conduct ourselves and too strongly we show, what we want in marriage? To live the present and not to think of the future is the excuse which has been thought up by men, or it is the truth?
The second variant those who pretend, that marry. They try to live to the full extent, aspire to perfection, but pity infantile mattresses as a result turn out. You play its game only because you hope, as well as all other girls who were on your place, to bring to reason him is also it all the same marries. Believe, they simply play game. Live, as though a draught copy write, when they will it is not known write clean, and whether there will be you in that scenario too in doubt.
There is still a variant: to marry the homosexual, to receive the treasured status, sex on the party with the man of your dream who never marries. Any scandals - all at business, all are quiet. It is possible to go on searches of family type of men. There is a chance to meet the man tiresome, is perfect to us uninteresting. And it is possible to reconcile and simply to buy the vibrator. The vibrator can replace the man, children can be made of a test tube, to provide itself today the woman in the same condition, as well as the man. Only here the vibrator never will present flowers, will not invite at cinema, will not wish happy birthday and, of course, you will not have supper with it at fashionable restaurant.
The set - approaching is not enough variants. Will not will you start to reflect. Perhaps we simply are too strongly dug? At it the curve nose, that too small, and that too thick, that does not understand jokes, and that drinks too much, and this smokes without interruption.
When to us 20, to us the sea knee-deep, also seems, that we Мэрилин Monroe, the Madonna, Джей Ло in one person. But then illusion vanishes, you understand, that the life goes, the next birthday, and you still not married. Moreover, on horizon there is no man who could become your husband. Around the man who never marries, the man for whom you never will leave both the homosexual. And a developing network of shops +SEX SHOP;.
But married men and married women undertake whence. Or all marry by a principle +from two harms – the least;. Then what for people in general marry? For the sake of approval by a society? Not to remain one, not to be leprous – the main problem of the woman? Has married, has found silent harbour – and now it is possible to live easy. It turns out, that the woman in any relations sees marriage, and all relations for the sake of it gets. Can from it and it turns out so much problem children and mad quantity of divorces – because that we aspire to marry simply? Why we cannot, as well as men to live +here and now;?
Certainly, a life not the novel. Also includes not only infinite fun, meetings with girlfriends in fashionable clubs, passionate sights of beautiful men. Certainly, there comes time when it is necessary to become staid and gets a family. But also to force events it is not necessary. It is necessary to do all in time. At first, we get an alarm clock, then we go to bed and only then we rise. And in any way differently. We, of course, can and without an alarm clock and not lay down at all – but only, what good leaves this?
It is necessary to live, as now is, of someone to meet, grow fond, and then and to think in marriage - незамуж, and that it in general for type and that from this all will turn out. For certain then also the man who never marries, suddenly will want to marry, he after all too should become staid once, and infantile will mature. And you for certain will meet the one who really approaches you. +While music plays, dance; as speaks Мураками. Only to dance it is necessary by all means very well so that all on you paid attention.
Lyudmila specially for Female club
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